Monday, March 2, 2009

Boy and Girl relationship


Every relationship has its pluses and minuses. For a strong relationship that satisfies both the partners, you have to consider yourself, your partner and the character of the relationship. If you manage to get into a relationship with the right person, you can have a long trouble-free journey.
A boy can make you pregnant and give you venereal diseases. He can also hurt your feeling. It is natural to be careful. Wait until you meet a boy you can trust in every respect.
Most of us who are in relationships, love to hear from our partner that we are appreciated, and that we are very valuable for them and that they love us. But after some time in the relationship, most of us forget to say- I love you to our partner. The daily routine makes the relationship dull and people begin taking others feelings for granted. At such times and even otherwise saying I love you can be of great value. That can rekindle the romance. That can bring the fire back in life. How to say- I love you most effectively? How to make it sound romantic and also convey the meaning that you appreciate your partner very much?
Observe your volume, tone and th
e place where are saying that. A hug and a whisper in the ear can be great. Equally good can be meeting the other person eye to eye and saying I love you with great warmth in the voice. Say I love you to your partner whenever you can, make it sound very special and gift them the love that you have for them in your heart.
Let your words say that you care very much for your partner. Show it with actions such as sharing chores or giving a gift. Go out on a dinner and say - I love you.


How To Save Your Relationship If You Are Getting Attracted To Someone Else?

Let us take an example. You are i
n a steady relationship. You love your partner and both of you have a good time together. You enjoy the relationship and do not want to destroy it. What if you meet somebody and get attracted? What will happen to your existing relationship and what should you do?
You have two options. The first is
to forget the attraction and carry on with your relationship. The second is to get more attracted to the new person and slowly destroy the old relationship. Which option would you select? This depends upon your character. Those who think by heart and others who think by head will reach different solutions.
Best would be to write about both the scenarios. W
rite about what would happen to you, your existing partner and your future partner. Study the consequences carefully and then decide. If you tell your existing partner about your attraction it would make your job much simpler. At least you will suffer less from guilt.

How To Have A Happy Relationship?


A relationship is very tricky. Tensions build up over time and one day both the partners cannot bear the stress of the relationship and give it up. After that they keep thinking about why that happened. Why not secure the relationship right from the beginning. Every relationship will have pluses and minuses. Our objective should be to build the pluses. The minuses will then become insignificant. What are the factors that may positively influence a relationship? Let us write them down.
Maintain awareness of feelings of each other.
If you are trying to be perfect, do not do that. That causes stresses. Accept that both of you are imperfect.
Talking about breakup up in heat of the moment is wrong. One should rather avoid talking about breaking up altogether. Avoid discussing about any break up your friends have. Do not focus on any negative. Focus on positives.
Be compassionate towards each other. Take care of the mood swings and do not create tension over small things. Try to ease the atmosphere. Show car
e towards other person.
Lying about anything should be absolute no. Do not even
try to hide things. Be totally open about everything. Never develop any trust deficit.
If something was better for you in the past and is not so in the present, avoid saying so.
Always end the day on a happy note. Do not let any misunderstanding open at the end of the day. Clear up all the mess and apologize if needed.
Know all about your partner’s likes and dislikes. If there is a conflict between what you like and what your partner likes, discuss that openly. Surrender if required. E
go in small matters never helped any one. You will feel better if you give happiness to your partner.
Go by your good instinct. Avoid thinking and dwelling upon negatives. Think of the world as a good place and your relationship as a great one
.

10 comments:

  1. woW!

    nice comprehension Ellen!

    keep up the goodwork!..

    i think your fall in love..

    weeey!

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  2. i really adore the article because it made be belive again. in love

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  3. .,wah.,
    wala jud q k relate
    .,.huhuhu

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  4. whoa!
    pag shore!
    comment2 q para naa ta grade dai!
    comment pod tawon ug balik saku.
    lamat!
    =D

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  5. "i think your fall in love.." Saba bading! wrong grammar! haha

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  6. tma jud...
    girls...

    keep this in mind...

    remember:

    "a boy can make you pregnant and give you venereal disease.."

    hahaha

    lol...

    nice joB eLLen...^_^

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  7. ., waaaa daghana na nimog comment ui.. hehe kaw jud ang 1st nga nka comment saaq..lamat

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  8. hi...len..taas kaau...but its really nice...

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  9. weeeh!..
    infairnezs!
    nycz sza!
    hehe!=]
    great job!

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